According to a study in USA and Madrid, men who engaged in house work appeared less attractive to their partners. Woooow!!! but this FB user Okolie Samuel ranted on his expectations that:
There's this pregnant woman in my compound that I have not been seeing for the past few days.
Yesterday evening I saw her, she has given birth. Those few days I've not been seeing, she was actually in the hospital.
With all those complications that come with giving birth to a child, she was trying to do wash plates. You needed to see how she was struggling to bend down to wash.
I couldn't stand it, so I told her that she should try resting now not doing what she's doing now and she told me that she has no choice.
I was touched by that reply and asked to leave the plates for me to wash. She insisted and I insisted too. Finally, she beckoned on one girl in my compound to wash the plates and I held my peace.
And when I look at the husband, he wasn't doing anything meaningful.
Giving birth isn't an easy stuff and as such a woman deserves a very good rest after each birth. In fact, a vacation won't be a bad idea. What went out of her no be here.
After 9 months of carrying a child with all the wahala that comes with it, you will not still rest after giving birth, no na. That's too bad.
I can't imagine my Rose washing plates or the babies clothes after giving birth. I won't if allow her to do anything.
Ladies, don't marry a man who is not domesticated and isn't willing to learn. Your story is likely to be like this woman.
Men, learn to be domesticated. It's wickedness and sheered insensitivity to allow your pregnant wife to be stressing herself out in the kitchen cooking for you or doing chores or stressing herself out after birth.
If you can't do it, hire someone that can. A woman deserves a very good rest after pregnancy. Carrying pregnancy, giving birth is a whole lot of stuff. Let her rest.
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